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Am I Resentful?

     ……. whether it’s the annoying fly interrupting my needed nap, the thoughtless words spoken by a trusted friend, the new ding in my twelve-year-old car, or the old hurt that generates fresh pain, resentment never helps the situation—never serves a redemptive purpose. Like the devil, it only steals, kills and destroys.  Scotty Smith
Am I a resentful person?  To be honest I would have to answer that question with a “yes”.  Things happen every day that I do not think should be happening to me.  I become resentful and angry.  But the real question is what do I do with that resentment.  Do I let it harbor in my heart taking it out on others?  Do I carry it around with  negative words and thoughts?  It is true all this resentment only leads to killing and destruction….killing and destroying relationship with God and others.
My prayer today is to be kind, compassionate and forgiving of others.  Can I do it?  Yes, I can with God’s help.
The godless in heart harbor resentment.Job 36:13 
Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.Eph. 4:31-32

Can We Change Anyone?

Relationships sometime seems so difficult.  I do not know why the people I love and care about can not see  and do things the way I do…. No matter how much I try to change them it only brings me anger, resentment and overall unhappiness.  What to do about this….deep in my heart I have known the answer and like always it is hard to put in practice.

We can’t change the person we are married to—even when we want to; we can only work on becoming the person God has called us to become. –Sarah Flashing

I noticed that this is a work in progress. So today and everyday I am going to try to work on “becoming the person God has called me to become…..

Humility

Humility is the state of being humble; absence of pride or self-assertion – Webster’s New World College Dictionary.

I would like to think that I am a humble person – Someone who is not prideful or thinks that they have all the answers.  However,  the more I think about this word humility I realize that I do not possess this trait.   I do not particularly like it when someone points out that I am wrong.   I do not like to put others first.  I do think I am better than some people – that is in my mind I do – because I would never say it out loud because I want people to perceive me as a humble person – not a know it all jerk. Confession time is over.

The more you know and the better you understand, the more severely will you be judged, unless your life is also the more holy.  Do not be proud, therefore because of your learning or skill.  Rather, fear because of the talent given you.  If you think you know many things and understand them well enough, realize at the same time that there is much that you do not know.  Hence, do not affect wisdom, but admit your ignorance.  Why prefer yourself to someone else when many are more learned, more cultured than you?   …..If you wish to learn and appreciate something worthwhile, then love to be unknown and considered as nothing.  Truly to know and despise self is the best and most perfect counsel.  To think of oneself as nothing, and always to think will and highly of others is the best and most perfect wisdom.  Thomas a’ Kempis

I Peter 5:5     You younger men, likewise, be subject to you elders: and all of you, clothe yourselves with humility toward one another, for GOD IS OPPOSED TO THE PROUD BUT GIVES GRACE TO THE HUMBLE.