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How Do Others Experience Me?

The other day my dear sweet husband asked me to move my daughter’s car.  I will admit that I was a little irritated….I was in the middle of drinking my morning coffee and reading the newspaper.  As I was getting into my daughter’s car, he asked me if I was mad at him.  (I was not really mad….just irritated that I had to leave my morning coffee and paper.)  So, I said, “No, why do you ask?”  Well, his response is that I looked mad.

I hate to think that I wear my emotions and thoughts so easily on my face.  I do not want to be thought of as a grouchy, irritated, mad person.

This morning I came across this prayer.

  Lord Jesus, as someone chosen in you before the world began, holy in you, and dearly loved by you, help me stay aware of how others experience me. Convict me when I come across as a minefield of irritability, a self-righteous porcupine, or a rigid control-meister. I don’t want to be the kind of person who makes others feel the need to tiptoe around or avoid me. Through the resources of the gospel, help me to see, own, and deal with the ways I love poorly. Scotty Smith

Much to think upon today…….

Overheard at My Own Funeral

Cavalry Cemetary

If I were a fly on the wall at my own funeral, I think the first thing people would say is “Who did the makeup? She looks horrible.”

Actually, I believe this question was in a book that I read by Steven Covey several years ago. One of the exercises was to write out what people would say about me at my funeral. I was stumped. The things that I thought of were – She seems nice but I did not know her very well. I think she loved God because she was at church all the time. She loved her husband and children very much. Pretty pathetic. It seems my world is pretty small.

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