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The Year of the Horse

Today is the start of the Chinese Lunar New Year – the year of the Horse. People born in the year of the Horse are helpful, chatty, humble, energetic and obstinate. My daughter was born in the year of the Horse. Now I was born in the year of the Ox. People born in the year of the Ox are dependable, polite, detail-oriented, patient and stubborn.

I think I am a dependable person. As an accountant I must be detailed-oriented. How else would I be able to keep all those accounting transactions straight. I hope I’m polite and I think my friends would describe me as stubborn. Patient….I don’t know.

I like to read blogs and one blog I read suggested that Ground Hog’s Day be another time when you check in on those New Years resolutions that were made last month. I’m thinking that is a good idea since it is the start if the Chinese New Year. Who doesn’t like a do-over. I certainly do.

I was looking over my January 1 post and I noticed I mentioned resolutions but never put any into words. I noticed the new “in” thing is to have a word of the year. I was torn between two words – love and gratitude. So instead of one word I am going to have two words. Both of these words are to help me grow closer to G-d.

I read a blog about the most courageous resolution for 2014 is taken from 1 Corinthians 14:1 ….Pursue love. Pursue means to “seek after eagerly.” So here the Scriptures that I plan on concentrate on in 2014 .

1 Corinthians 13
John 13-15
I John
Matthew 22
Mark 12
Luke 10
Hebrews 13:1-7

I started reading the book “One Thousand Gifts: A Dare to Live Fully Right Where You Are” by Ann Voskamp. I began to realize that I am not a very thankful person. That I take much of life for granted. I have started my on list of gifts to be more mindful of my blessings.

Review: The Dark Mirror

The Dark Mirror
The Dark Mirror by Juliet Marillier
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

I have read several books by Juliet Marillier. I tried reading this book several months ago but I must not have been in the mood to read this type of book. This time I picked up the book to read and I enjoyed the story line very much. I guess I was in the mood to read a epic fantasy fiction type book.

This story is about a young boy named Bridei that is raised by Broichan one of the most powerful druids in the land. Bridei is being brought to to fulfill the the purpose that Broichan is raising hime to fill. It is a lonely life for the young boy until one Midwinter Eve, Bridei finds a young child name Tuala on the doorstep. The story is how these two grow up together and how their lives are entwined. I do not want to say more….so the story will not be spoiled.

I think that I liked this story because it is about a young man who is courageous, honest and trustworthy. He stays true to his promises. It is also about a young girl who is an outcast and is only accepted because Bridei loves her and took her in as a young child. It is a story about their love and devotion to each other against all the forces that are trying to keep them apart.

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Can We Change Anyone?

Relationships sometime seems so difficult.  I do not know why the people I love and care about can not see  and do things the way I do…. No matter how much I try to change them it only brings me anger, resentment and overall unhappiness.  What to do about this….deep in my heart I have known the answer and like always it is hard to put in practice.

We can’t change the person we are married to—even when we want to; we can only work on becoming the person God has called us to become. –Sarah Flashing

I noticed that this is a work in progress. So today and everyday I am going to try to work on “becoming the person God has called me to become…..