Today is the first day of what I am going to call “hell” week. October 17 is a big day for tax accountants. We are or at least our office is working desperately to get out all the individual tax returns that are on final extension. As the pressure builds to beat the deadline, tempers flare. To make matters worse our fearless leader has been out of the office since the first of October and now not only our our tempers short but also our clients are not happy. Not a good situation at all. It makes for a horrible Monday.
Anyway, as I was reading the paper this morning I came across this article written by the “You Docs” called “Incivility at Work?” As I read the article I decided that I needed to apply these tips especially this week when it will be so easy to be rude and nasty.
1. Respect others. Look for the best in people. Speak kindly. Bite my tongue when I am about to gossip or make a witty-cruel comment. Listen to my coworkers.
2. Avoid the verbal toxin at the office. If it happens, then think upbeat thoughts afterwards.
3. Don’t make excuses for my own rude behavior.
4. Try to find meaning in what I do.
Here are the reasons why I need to put this in place.
1. It infects my home life. Rudeness has a ripple affect and I will then treat the ones I love with unkindness.
2. It is a health threat. Negativity and chronic stress boost my blood pressure. Being polite and positive does the opposite.
3. This is definitely true – I do not work as hard and I resentment grows within me.





