Category Archives: Holidays

Memorial Day Holiday 2014

Today I am wondering about the expression “Happy Memorial Day”.  I heard this several times today and I was wondering, is Memorial Day really suppose to be a “happy” day? I know that I am happy that I get the day off from work with pay but that is not true for everyone.  I am happy that I had the opportunity to spend time with my family.  I know many look at today as the start of summer vacation and summer time does make me happy.  Maybe it is just one of those things we say because it is a holiday and really do not mean anything by it. However, it seems to me that some time on Memorial Day should be spent on reflecting on the sacrifice of the US veterans.

This year Marc and I attended the Friendswood Memorial Day Ceremony.  The event was very well attended and I thought the program was great.  My favorite part was the medley of patriotic songs played on bagpipes.  

Image                                        Before the ceremony started.

Image                               Practicing taking selfies.

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Guest speaker Commander Gary Jones, 147th Operations Support Squadron, Ellington Field Joint Reserve Base

ImageImage                      The ceremony was closed by playing “Taps”.

Another Birthday….

Tomorrow I will be 53 years old. I have lived 19358 days, or 464,592 hours or 27,875,520 minutes or 1,672,531,200 seconds. Where did all this time go? It reminds me of the song lyrics “Time keeps on slipping, slipping into the future.”

Anyway, since I’m half a century old maybe I should come up with a bucket list. One of the things I’m thinking about putting on this list is a mud run. The one I’m considering is one just for women. I hoping the obstacles might be a little easier – yea right! I suppose I’m most afraid that I would find it too difficult for me. I did a google search on mud run training. I came across a really cool website that had a five week training plan with videos. However, the website said that you needed to be able to “run” (not jog) for 3 miles that then the training schedule was not for you and you needed to get out and practice running. Potential problem – I have a running pace – that is if you could call it running – of about a 11-12 minute mile. I pretty sure that would be considered jogging. If I did do this it would be a really good feeling to conquer my fears.

On another note, I ordered two bracelets. Each bracelet has one of my 2014 words on them. I really like them.
Every time I look at these words it brings to me my goal of learning gratitude and pursuing love.

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The Year of the Horse

Today is the start of the Chinese Lunar New Year – the year of the Horse. People born in the year of the Horse are helpful, chatty, humble, energetic and obstinate. My daughter was born in the year of the Horse. Now I was born in the year of the Ox. People born in the year of the Ox are dependable, polite, detail-oriented, patient and stubborn.

I think I am a dependable person. As an accountant I must be detailed-oriented. How else would I be able to keep all those accounting transactions straight. I hope I’m polite and I think my friends would describe me as stubborn. Patient….I don’t know.

I like to read blogs and one blog I read suggested that Ground Hog’s Day be another time when you check in on those New Years resolutions that were made last month. I’m thinking that is a good idea since it is the start if the Chinese New Year. Who doesn’t like a do-over. I certainly do.

I was looking over my January 1 post and I noticed I mentioned resolutions but never put any into words. I noticed the new “in” thing is to have a word of the year. I was torn between two words – love and gratitude. So instead of one word I am going to have two words. Both of these words are to help me grow closer to G-d.

I read a blog about the most courageous resolution for 2014 is taken from 1 Corinthians 14:1 ….Pursue love. Pursue means to “seek after eagerly.” So here the Scriptures that I plan on concentrate on in 2014 .

1 Corinthians 13
John 13-15
I John
Matthew 22
Mark 12
Luke 10
Hebrews 13:1-7

I started reading the book “One Thousand Gifts: A Dare to Live Fully Right Where You Are” by Ann Voskamp. I began to realize that I am not a very thankful person. That I take much of life for granted. I have started my on list of gifts to be more mindful of my blessings.

The Start of 2014

I love the feeling I get every new year. The feeling of newness. That feeling that I can start over. That is why I love to make New Year’s Resolutions. Do I keep them? No. But every year I feel the need to make them. This year I have some floating in my head that I might share a little later.

What I did want to write about was the start of this day – January 1, 2014. I felt like staying in bed. I even tried to tell myself it is a holiday and I should take it easy. After arguing with myself, I did get up and lifted weights in my upstairs exercise room for about 40 minutes and then when for a 20 minute run/walk. I call it a run/walk because I ran for 15 minutes and cooled down for 5 minutes. I have also been thinking about an exercise schedule for 2014. I am mad at LA Fitness. They discontinued the 5:45 am spinning class, which was my favorite time to go to the gym. It is not as much fun by myself without an instructor telling me what to do.

This morning I decided to have a green smoothie for breakfast. The only problem my smoothie is not very green.

Green Smoothie????

Green Smoothie????

This is what is in my smoothie:

1 cup water
1 small apple
1/2 cup cucumber
1/2 frozen banana
1 cup mixed fruit – blackberries, blueberries and strawberries
2 cups packed tightly of baby spinach
1 Tablespoon lemon juice

Mixed together with my vitamix blender.

I did think it was very yummy!!!

Wishing everyone a Happy New Year today.

My happiness Project

I have now spent fifty-five years in resolving; having,from the earliest time almost that I can remember, been forming schemes so a better life. I have done nothing. The need of doing, therefore, is pressing, since the time of doing is short. O GOD, grant me to resolve aright, and to keep my resolutions. Samuel Johnson

I thought this quote sums up my experience of making resolution and then doing nothing to make any headway on them. This year I have decided to do something a little different…I have decided to have a happiness project.

I just finished reading “The Happiness Project” by Gretchen Rubin.


I thought the book was well written. I liked how Gretchen assigned each month with an area to improve upon. She tried new things and ideas. Sometimes they brought about the desired happiness and sometimes they did not.

In the book, Gretchen stated that the key to the success of her experiment was her resolution chart. She also used Benjamin Franklins Chart of 13 Virtues to come up with her resolution chart.

In Gretchen’s experiment, January was the month to work on boosting energy and vitality.

She resolved to:
1. Go to sleep earlier
2. Exercise better
3. Toss, restore, organize
4. Tackle a nagging task
5. Act more energetic

I was wondering about Benjamin Franklin’s Chart. I was able to find a nice PDF file that listed his virtues. The first virtue was temperance. Temperance was to eat not to dullness. Drink not to elation. I thought that this virtue goes well with Gretchen’s list for January.

Here is my list:
1. Go to bed earlier. I have read in many health articles that getting 7-8 hours of sleep is very good for you and can even help with weight loss. Usually, I do go to bed around 11pm and wake up at 5am. I love getting up early so to get at least 7 hours of sleep I will need to be in bed ready to sleep at 10 pm.

2. I exercise pretty regularly. I’m already signed up for a 5k on March 24. I’m not good at strength training. I’m going to try to come up with a consistent exercise program that incorporates more weight training. Also, my eating habits are terrible. I need to come up with some sort of plan to eat healthier.

3. Toss, restore, organize. It is true that chaos can stifle creativity. Here is a picture of my home office. I even have a closet that I call the “dungeon” because ….it is hard to explain.
My office…..


The “dungeon”


There is a lot here that needs to be tossed, restored and organized. This room takes all my energy away.

4. Tackle a nagging task….I’m sure that I have many in my office.

5. Finally, act energetic. Maybe if I act energetic I will be energetic…or at least think I have it.

Merry Christmas

Wishing everyone a very Merry Christmas!

Making Pumpkin Bread

My dear sweet Emily is coming home from college tomorrow for Thanksgiving break.  She requested that I make some pumpkin bread so I spent the evening doing just that.  I took these pictures with my little Sony Cyber-shot.  I took some with flash/no flash/ or flash that highlights the background. I only wish I could tell which picture was the best picture from all the options I was using.

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The End of 2010

Well, I had big plans for today.  However, I have not accomplished the plans.  What I have realized is that I must get organized or I am going to go insane.  I wanted to post some pictures of all the places and events that took place in 2010. I started thinking of all the places and trips I took but I can not find the pictures.  My filing system stinks. (This year my husband purchased a new camera and I received his old one – a Nikon D40)  My pictures are not very good and I need to learn how to use the camera.  My husband says just start taking pictures and soon you will learn what you are doing wrong.

I have digressed.  My office/craft room is a disaster.  I want to work on projects and have all my paperwork filed so I can start fresh in 2010.  That was my plan for today.  Get my office organized.  This job must be bigger than I thought because instead of working in the office I had to make sour dough bread.  I could not let the starter that someone gave to me go to waste.  I then had to bake cookies for the New Year’s Eve that I plan to attend.

Here are pictures of my baking time.

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I have sampled the cookies and they are delicious.  I hope I will be able to say the same for the bread.

Well, I need to get cleaned up for the get together and maybe I have a few minutes to work on office organization – otherwise known as cleaning.

 

More on Gift Giving

This morning I read in the Houston Chronicle how Amazon is proposing early gift rejection.  The idea works like this.  Amazon has patented a way for people to return gifts before they are received and the patent even mentions the name of the gift giver.  The consumer can keep an online list of lousy gift-givers whose choices may be appraised before the gift is even shipped.  The recipient does not have to return the gift saving the time and money of having to repack and send the gift back to Amazon.  Amazon saves money  because they do not have the expense of restocking and sending out a new gift.  Supposedly, a win-win situation.  But is it really win-win?

No wonder it is so hard to give gifts.  What if I am a terrible gift giver?  I know I am a terrible gift giver.  I have resorted to just giving money because trying to find just the right gift the will bring joy seems impossible.  Maybe this is my “Scrooge” attitude coming through this year.

What do you think?  Is it a good idea to be able to return gifts before they are even shipped?

Christmas is over!!!

Warning – the following might be depressing.  I thought long and hard about  posting this but decided that I would feel better if I did.

The Christmas tree has been dismantled.  The decorations are back in their boxes and in the attic.  For me I am glad Christmas is over.  My expectations just must have been too high this year.  I do not know why I think that Christmas should be full of happy family and good food.  I think that tonight’s sermon from our youth minister put it somewhat in perspective for me.

He spoke about how he hates the Christmas season because it brings about such enormous feelings of selfishness.  Christmas is a time of buying and making lists and deciding what you might like to get from Santa. Who cares about the giving it is the getting that is so much fun. And anyway, my kids are now old enough that the gifts they want are expensive which somehow takes out the pleasure of gift giving for me.  Can I say selfish any louder?    I can totally relate to this malady of being overtaken by selfishness. I really do not want people to know how selfish I really am – I am suppose to be a Christian.

This year I received a chiminea.  A huge one that was on my list.  I also received a pandora bracelet – with a few of the charms.  I really wanted one of those too.  So why the disappointment.  Our youth minister pointed out that he would receive nice gifts too.  But then he would become obsessed with the one he did not get.  I have become obsessed with the one I did not get.   My dear husband took me to the phone store twice to look at phones.  He tried to talk me into one of those Android phones but I have always wanted an Iphone.  I told him that I really wanted an Iphone.  I was sure that I was going to get one of those. Anyway, I was disappointed that one was not under the tree.  How selfish can I get?  The pandora bracelet was not cheap either! SELFISH! SELFISH!

Another reason our youth minister hates Christmas is family.  Someone always starts and argument and someone always ends up crying. This year I have also struggled with all the pictures of family enjoying the festive holiday season – full of laughter and fun.

The weekend before Christmas was hectic with my niece graduating from college and then the trip to Corpus to visit my folks.

The trip to Nacadoghes was made in one day.  We woke up at 4:3o am to get on the road by 5:00 am.  The timing was good to get the graduation in time to get good seats.  The problem came when we decided to find a place to eat lunch.  We were not seated in the restaurant until 3:00pm.  I have come to the conclusion that adults can turn into mean and nasty adults when they have eaten a small biscuit very early in the morning and lunch is not served until after 3:00pm.  (As you can probably guess fasting is not a disciple that we participate in very much.)

My son is going into the Army come January 3 and we thought it would be good time for a visit especially since it has been about three years since he has made the trek to visit with his grandparents.  I do not think a visit could be so filled with expectation of a loving family fall so short.  The kids were more interested in their computers and phones than in visiting.  My mother wanted to visit the cemeteries.  That was a disaster.  The kids acted so bored along with my dear husband.  (By the way, my kids are young adults – over the age of 20.)

Christmas Day – what can I say.  Both my son and my husband worked on Christmas day.  My daughter and I ate at Ihop.  I told my daughter that all the people who do not have family to celebrate Christmas with go to Ihop.  Then we were off to the movies.  The movie we watched was just okay.  It did not make a big impression on me because right now I am having a hard time remembering the name.  Then I told my daughter that all the lonely people who do not have families also go to the movies for Christmas.  Can you tell that I am full of self-pity and selfishness?

Enough of this!!! My husband has the chiminea going and I have been invited to sit outside and enjoy the crisp night air with my husband.  I think I will join him and delight in this gift that he gave to me.

Thanks Steve for a great lesson.